Acceptance

One must accept what had gone on in their life in order to move on and make a better life.  When you are so infatuated with your past that it continues to haunt your dreams and paralyzes you from moving forward, then you must step back and stop giving it so much power.  Dreams are only accomplished when you allow yourself to make mistakes and you stop punishing yourself.  When you find yourself blaming others for your un-happiness that is when you know you are stuck.  Accept your past as your past and leave it there.  Begin to look forward one step at a time and miraculously your life will change the way you  want it to change.